Let's Get it Started

As I surf through "blog-world" I have found many people who detail their affairs online. They talk about the beauty of "true love" and how they are trapped in marriages they don't want to be in. They talk about how wonderful their lovers are, and how misunderstood they are. Usually these people have tried EVERYTHING to make their marriages work and their spouse has thwarted them at every turn. I am the other guy. I am the one who cheated. My wife was, and is, wonderful. She did nothing to deserve what I did to her. She is truly the most wonderful person I have ever met. She has the best sense of humor, is an awesome cook, and loves to spend time with me. She is patient and understanding. And she loves me, more than anything. Even now. Right now she is standing in front of me shaking her rear end to make me laugh - she cracks me up.

Is there anyone else like me out there? Anyone who regrets the lies, cheating, and deception and is striving to make things right? Anyone else who is willing to admit that they were the bad guy in the relationship? Anyone who values marriage and desperately wants to make it work?

I will chronicle as we continue the healing process. However, my ultimate goal with this blog is to bring hope to others. If one other person can sympathize with what I am going through and draw hope from it, I have accomplished what I set out to do. I hope you enjoy the ride...